Friday, February 10, 2006

Sound Advice for 'Bi-Curious' Girls

Sound Advice for "Bi-Curious" Girls
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Okay, first off, if you want to get laid, avoid using the term "bi-curious." It is a flat-out turn off to anyone who has spent any time in the queer community. It sounds dumb, and it makes you sound dumb. Now you know.

Secondly, leave out the sob story about the long-suppressed fantasy. Heads up, every queer here has a sob story! Yours isn't special, in fact its boring.

Thirdly, just describe the woman you want. Skip the sexual history and don't worry about coming up with a label for yourself. Saying (and showing) you're into girls is usually proof enough. If she cares about the rest, she'll ask.

Fourthly, go to gay bars. If you don't know where one is, do your homework. Make some phone calls, surf the internet, walk around the Mission. Meet people. Treat everyone you meet as a potential friend, not a potential fuck. Friends are good. You can be honest with them and ask them for advice. Queer friendships can support you through the coming-out process.

Fifthly, lower your expectations (can't say it enough). Not all girls are cute, but some of them are smart and funny as hell.

Sixthly, leave your boyfriend out of it and at home. If he wants a threesome, tell him to take it up the ass from another man while you watch.

Lastly, confidence is the number one sexiest quality in any woman. If you sound ambivalent or unsure of yourself, how can you expect anyone else to take you seriously? Take heart, be brave, and seize the day.

7 Comments:

At Saturday, February 11, 2006 8:34:00 AM, Blogger RockstotheChest said...

Isn't bi-curious just another word for greedy?
Like, "Timmy, did you eat all the chocolate cake?"
"Yes mom."
"Goddammit Timmy, your so bi-curious. Now your bi-curiousity has ruined your Grandmothers birthday."
Just like that.

 
At Saturday, February 11, 2006 8:43:00 AM, Blogger torvo said...

Labels are always problematic anyways.

 
At Saturday, February 11, 2006 11:15:00 AM, Blogger Vengelyne said...

A sound advice instead. I feel so enlightened now. =D

 
At Monday, February 13, 2006 12:49:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Greedy is an understatement. I've had a few girls tell me they were "bi-curious" and I promtly told them that I didn't have training wheels. These people really annoy me.

 
At Monday, February 13, 2006 3:03:00 PM, Blogger RockstotheChest said...

The people that annoy me are the guys who say they're 'bi-curious' but due to my humble upbringing, I innocently think they are saying 'boy-curious' and when I call them big gaybos they get all upset 'cause they are only fifty percent gay or something.

 
At Friday, February 17, 2006 2:09:00 PM, Blogger Lost & Delirious Girl said...

yeah..i already suggested that but he didn't seem too interested... :(

 
At Friday, February 17, 2006 8:04:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Suggested what? I'm overwhelmed with comments and way too much comment spam. And plus I don't like replying to comments because they kill the joke sometimes.

 

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